Wednesday, September 9, 2015

It's Launch Day!! And a Blog-a-versary!!


Today's the BIG day!!  





The Blended Blog grew out of the friendship of a bunch of gals who never even met in real life, are different ages and backgrounds but we all discovered that we have a lot in common.  Most notable? Our love of fashion.  We met and linked up while participating in Style Challenges, as the Style Me Bloggers, a year and a half ago.  Though we have outgrown the Style Me Bloggers name, our friendship has only grown stronger!! I am thrilled to be starting this new chapter with them!  Our blog is a collective.  Throughout each month we'll be posting topics of interest that run the gamut from fashion to food, faith and family and everything in between!! I hope you'll add The Blended Blog to your "to read list" and follow along with us on this new journey!! Take a look around, get to know each one of us and stay awhile!

It makes me so happy that The Blended Blog is launching today!  Because on this very day three years ago, I launched The Mishaps and Mayhem of a Solitary Life!  This blog started out as a joke at first and an online journal of sorts, just for me! You see, I was pretty old when I moved out on my own! (a Catholic School salary can do that to ya!) and when I finally did it was what one might call a comedy of errors.  Every day I went into work with a new story, and my friends would laugh (at me or with me, I'm still not sure!)  and then I posted to facebook that I was going to start a blog!  My timehop reminded me of this Monday actually!!  Then I posted this to insta and The Mishaps and Mayhem of a Solitary Life Facebook page!
{9-7-15}

So two days later I really did!! Then I discovered people actually liked what they were reading and hey, some even thought I was a good writer...and funny too!!  In the beginning I wasn't too familiar with blogging. I wrote only my thoughts, never thought to add pictures!  I also didn't blog as regularly as I do now. This blog has morphed into something way more than I ever thought it would be!  Woulda thunk I'd be blogging about my outfits and posting selfies??  I dubbed 2014 the year of the blog because it really took off, but I like rereading over the posts of the old days...never forgetting where I started from and just how far I've come...and how much further I want to go...with both this blog and The Blended Blog!  I hope you'll join me!

September 9th is a pretty great day!

Take a peek back in time....here's my very first post!!  {Original Post}

Sunday, September 9, 2012


I was kidding...

SO when I originally posted that I was going to start a blog on Facebook, I was KIDDING!!  But the more I thought about it, the more silly things were happening to me.  Half of which I shake my head and laugh at...some of which I'll admit...I've cried about!  (Don't worry Ma...the laughs far out way the tears!!)

Living on my own at 32 should not be new.  I should have taken this step a long, long, long, long time ago!!  But I am catholic school teacher, who doesn't drive and makes way less money than anyone might think!  So my parents, and then my sister, so graciously took me back following college.  And while my wanting to buy a place has been in the works for quite sometime, I thought "Ya know what?!? I have enough saved for a house...for now let me just keep that in savings and use this year's salary to rent."  It was quick, after that...maybe too quick!  LOL

It's been about a month here.  A few things I discovered thus far....

I need a bug catcher!!
There are a lot of bugs here. I don't think this is a buggy place, I just think that with it being summer and all and my apartment being surrounded by trees and shrubs, I'm gonna have bugs!  I've seen spiders and ants and I'm pretty certain I sleep with mosquitos at night.  (No Jean...apparently this is not a one night stand!) I am sure my bug situation has nothing to do with the fact that my front door doesn't close all the way because of my fabulous new mat (Thanks Lauren and Amy!) and by the time I realize it, close to ten minutes have gone by!  Oooppppssss!!

Bug catching made me late for work the other day too!  Not late, late but late on my terms.  If there was ever a day I could be late though, it was last week.  This year, I am teaching library and tech so I didn't have kids last week and now don't have to be there so, so early! BUT...maybe I do!!!  Walking to work at 10 to 8 (Yes...I live that close...), I heard a bunch of footsteps coming up behind me, then rush passed me!!  It was middle school kids who go to the school across from mine!!!
 When we reached the corner, THE CROSSING GUARD, let us all go.  Since I had to cross over again...she stopped traffic and let me go AGAIN!  I was a little embarrassed but thought it was funny too.  After this, I decided I would leave much earlier, so as not to meet the middle schoolers or the crossing guard again!!!
The next day....no middle schoolers...but I crossed the street safely with the help of the crossing guard lady!  Or as I now like to refer to her... my new best friend! LOL

Note to self...never buy a top that has a tie in the back or buttons up the back!!  BECAUSE THERE'S NO ONE HERE TO TIE IT OR BUTTON IT FOR YOU!!!!!  Because of my new solitary life, I need to remember this.  I took these things for granted when I lived with others.  Someone was always there to button me, zipper me or tie me up in the back!  I contemplated not wearing that shirt, that day but since I had picked it out the night before (due to my lateness previously) and had no time to think of anything else.  So I did what I could to tie it, went to work disheveled, and asked a friend to tie me in the back!

Me and my Bravo!
I am a big fan of the Bravo supermarket.  Because it's close to me obviously!!!  And they honestly have really good deals.  Like today for example.  I bought all these cans of food for buy one, get one free, 5 for $5 and so on.  I got home with all my groceries and while putting them away realized something:  I DON'T HAVE A CAN OPENER TO OPEN ANY OF THESE! After about a second of laughing at my stupidity, I had nothing to worry about!!!  Out the door I went. To Family Dollar down the road!!!  And got myself the DELUXE can opener...for $2!!  LOL

SO now it's back to being that dreaded 5'oclock on Sunday!  I've planned for tomorrow when I meet my students in Library and Technology, I've watched some football, eating snacks and drinking beer.

My beer is another story!!  My last Shock Top in the fridge I was saving for the JETS game.  I thought about getting more when I was at the Bravo (no Shock Top there, but beer in general) but decided I should go with the canned goods instead!  This would have been fine, IF I didn't spill the beer on the carpet!!  Damn it!!!

Reading this, it might seem that I am not liking living on my own!!  I absolutely am!!  I can take longer showers, I don't need to put on a bra to come out of my room in the morning, and can have dance parties in my living room!! I've also noticed though that I talk to myself a lot, don't really like the quiet, and I LOVE visitors!!

I don't know who'll read this, but if you do I hope you get a lil' kick out of it!  My policy has always been to laugh at myself...so laugh along with me!!

Until next time...if there is a next time,
Katie

Tuesday, September 8, 2015

Three Day Weekends Make Me Happy!

Now I know I just had the whole summer "off" but now that I am back to work, three day weekends make me so happy.  Even though sometimes I feel like four day weeks take the longest to get through!  After last week, I'm happy to have had the day off.

Friday night I went to happy hour at my friend's house!  We usually reserve the first Friday after the first week for going out after school, but since her husband had a concert to go to, she invited us to her house. It ended up being the best time!  The kids played, we chatted, drank wine, had snacks and chatted some more!

Saturday was a pretty perfect day!!  I had no plans really.  I knew I wanted to go into town but other than that-nothing!  I ran out of fat free half and half for my coffee and wanted to get a coffee at the coffee shop on Main Street.  After I returned my library books, I decided to treat myself to a bagel and a coffee from the bagel store.  I never get bagels!!  I was thinking I would just bring my bagel and coffee home, but ended up eating there. Then I walked in town for a while.  I stopped into a brand new super cute store that just opened Friday.  It's kinda like an Etsy shop right on Main Street!  I'll be going back for sure!

Then I stopped by the cheese shop for my favorite cheese, St. Angel, but they were all out!  I ended up putting my name on the list for them to call me when it comes in because the woman said their last order didn't even last a day!  That's just plain crazy!!  And it's probably crazy, too, that I'm adding my name to lists to be notified about cheese!!  LOL But sometimes a girl's just gotta treat herself!

After that I window-shopped for a bit and headed home.  Before going home I went across to the next section in my complex where they are still building and walked the walking path around.  At the end of the complex, they have three docks spaced out across.  The docks are over a small lake.  The one closest to me definitely had the most sun, so I plopped down for a few minutes. Then I had the idea to go change, grab my beach chair and book and spend some time there.  I could get more hours in the sun sitting there instead of the postage stamp patio, for sure...so that's what I did!!  I ended up being there five hours.  The weather was gorgeous and breezy, so not too hot!!  I sat, read my book a little, and listened to the music of a band playing on the other side of the road.  Ironically they played country.  It was a little muffled but I could make out the songs just fine!  And when they took breaks I google-played it!

I didn't see anyone for quite awhile.  Then my neighbor walked up and scared the bloody crap outta me!  But I would have to say in those 5 hours, about 4 hours and 45 minutes worth, I didn't see another soul!  It was so peaceful.  I wondered why I hadn't been coming here all summer!

A few pics of the dock area!
This gives you an idea of how big (or little!) it is!

Just below it

These two I posted on insta that day!
#katiedaily2015 Day 248



It really was a beautiful day!!  After my day on the dock, I was tired.  So I just spent a quiet Saturday night in watching the Notre Dame game and drinking wine.

Sunday was the last summer BBQ at my sister's house.  And guess what?  There were finally burgers and dogs!!  HA!!  Every BBQ this summer we've had fish and chicken, which are great!  But sometimes you just need a big, yummy, juicy burger!!  And my brother-in-law made them from scratch...So Good!!  It was a beautiful day!  It stinks that now being September we lose the sun earlier!  But I actually spent most of the day under the umbrella to be honest!!
It was a nice casual day to close out the summer.


Monday, being my Sunday, I ended up doing some laundry, did after care work, and lesson plans for the week.  I also laid out for what I think is going to be the last time. #insertsadefacehere  I was able to get about 2 hours in which was good! So long SUMMER!...what a bummer!!!

Last night some of us went to dinner because my Uncle was visiting.  I was glad to see him and happy we went to a restaurant on the water in my town!   I also got the chance to see my mom and dad one last time before they go back down to Florida for a few months!  Dinner was good time.  I got home rather early but ended up going to bed after 12:30...and falling asleep after 1.  What the heck??

Oh I did watch the finale of Bachelor in Paradise though.  Did anyone else?  I am happy Jade and Tanner are engaged, but am still so upset about Carly and Kirk.  I really don't think he wanted to break up with her!  I think he just wanted to slow it down.  But he did that all kinds of wrong.  I don't think she'll have a problem getting a date!  Him on the other hand...

Today it's Tuesday and the first day of After Care, so it's my late day!  Looking forward to my wine and leftover pasta from last night when I get home!!  When you live this Solitary Life, it's  the little things!

And I am so excited for tomorrow!!!  Come on back...


The Blended Blog is OFFICIALLY launching!!  
It's the collective blog of the "former" Style Me Bloggers. We will be posting on a wide variety of topics and featuring guest posts from other bloggers as well. We can't wait to share our ideas, talents and thoughts with you all!   And HUGE HUGS and THANKS to our fearless leader, Deena who has been doing all the behind the scenes work to get it up and running!! 



See you tomorrow!!

Hope you all had a relaxing holiday weekend, too!!

Linking up today for:
Weekending with B Loved Boston and Champagne & SuburbsMonday Madness with Ashley at A Cute Angle


Monday, September 7, 2015

Monthly Rewind: August in numbers!

August has come and gone!!  WHAT?!?!  Well that's just...BLAH!!!

Linking up with Deena today for her Monthly numbers post! 

Here's my August in Numbers...

With the exception of two weekends, it was a relatively quiet month for me!  Basically I soaked up as much summer as I could!  Lazy days in the sun!  I read a few books, went to one kick-ass Kenny concert, celebrated Happy Heart Day, had a mini family reunion and spent lots of fun days with friends! And again...I ate out A LOT...like 20 meals out!!

A few more notables:

3 days spent with cousins!  (I'm so sad I never blogged this!)

2 books read...and one that I gave up on!  Loved them both. I don't know why but I bawled at the end of each of them!!  That is a sign of a great book!! Highly recommend both!!  The Nightingale took me a while but I read An Invisible Thread over two days!  The Nightingale was my first Kristin Hannah book but I will definitely be reading more by her.  An Invisible Thread was an engaging memoir! LOVED!! I started Me Before You at the very end of August and finished it a few days later, so 'm saving that one for September numbers!













1 Alive after Five attended.  Was happy to finally make one of these this summer!  I mentioned here that I wanted to go to more.  But it actually worked out that I had previous plans on all the other dates!  I had a great time and even got myself a t-shirt!

August was a big month on the blog and across my social media!

I posted to the blog 18 times in August

The blog hit 50K views(and then some)!  My 100th post of 2015 was published in August and my 250th post on the blog overall.

The most viewed post on the blog in August: Five on Friday! 8/28/2015

I also reached 200 followers on instagram in August!
And posted 47 pics (and blog reminders)!!

Thanks to my friend Military Wife and Pug Life, I added a bunch of members to the blog via Blogger/Google Plus!!  Thanks girl!!  I have to start using and understanding Google Plus more!!  If I'm honest that's the social media outlet I am least familiar with, but it's also the most up-and-coming...so I have to get on that!!!

The Facebook Page hasn't gained many followers but it's had a high post reach and lots of clicks! And was actually the highest traffic source for the blog!! Feel free to share the page with friends!!  :)

The most popular post on Facebook in August:  High School Me


Hope you all had a great August and are finding yourselves swell in September!
Enjoy Labor Day!


Friday, September 4, 2015

We survived the first week back!!

YAY!!  Friday is finally here!!  I love summer vacation but now that we are back in school, I enjoy the euphoria that Friday brings!  Ha!  And it's the last installment of Blog Hoppin's Teacher Week!  I've had a lot of fun linking up this week and sharing the teaching side of ME!!

Today's topic is: 

This is my fourth year teaching Library and Technology at my school.  And to tell you the truth when this position was first brought to me, I thought I'd like teaching the technology classes better! But technology is ever-changing and sometimes it's almost as if I can't keep up!!  

I have just fallen IN LOVE with library! When I was a classroom teacher ELA was my favorite subject to teach, and library is an extension of that.  I love reading the kids' stories.  Seeing the excitement on their faces and asking for books to be read aloud!  I like guiding them to the right books and seeing what they bring me each week.  I love how engaging our book talks can become and the fun craftivities and activities we do to accompany the books we read.  I also enjoy when students tell me they "couldn't put this book down" over the weekend or "I can't wait to read another book by this author."  It just makes my heart happy when children get excited about reading.  I love when the older students ask me for book recommendations and share their favorites with me.  It helps to strengthen our bond.  If I can help even one student develop that lifelong love of reading then my job is done! And I just really love my cozy little library too!! :)


Find some of my favorite books to use in the Library {here}.

I loved linking up this week!!  I didn't get a chance to post each day, but hope to come back to share a tour of my library and technology lab with you soon!!

Happy Friday! Happy Holiday Weekend and Happy First Week(s) of School!!

Katie

Thursday, September 3, 2015

Teacher Week: Sanity Savers

It's been a super busy and hectic first two days of the school but I'm hoppin' on board once again to link up for Blog Hoppin's Teacher Week!

Today's topic:

Hmmmm...tips and tricks to make work life easier! 

This...before work!                                                                                     and this...after work!!


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

Now on to the topic at hand....

For me and I think lots of teachers first and foremost, STAY ORGANIZED!  Aside from a lesson planner I keep a regular planner.  Last year my planner was actually a student planner (this year, too come to think of it!).  HA!  (One of these days I'll bite the bullet and get one of those really awesome ones!)  Even though I'm the tech teacher, I don't keep things on the calendar on my phone.  I like to write things down and check things off!  I even highlight school events, home events and even blog posts, in different colors.  It helps me stay on top of things!! I also have lots of post-its in my planner for things that I want to remember of things that come up on the fly.

Another thing that has helped me tremendously is using Dropbox.  Many of you might already use this!  But I just love it.  Teaching both Library and Technology I am often in two different rooms throughout the day! Dropbox allows you to save documents to a central location.  But you can connect your account to different computers.  I use three different computers at work, as well as my home computer and can save all the docs from any of those to use at anytime.  I feel like I am not explaining it well!  HA!!  Find out more here.  It's quicker than putting your USB drive in and pulling up documents, especially with kids waiting!  And I sometimes lose USB drives, so for me, this is more convenient!
Dropbox


Lots of times there are days when the kids are driving me absolutely crazy, or a class just didn't go well, and I'm feeling at my wits end!  But other times, it really is the kids who help me stay sane!  I guess this is a plus to teaching library and tech and getting the chance to see so many different students during the school day.  There's always more students who will just turn my day right around.  They tell me about a book they picked up in library and read in a day (and loved!) or I'll hear them say, "This is the best website ever!" These little interactions make me smile!!  Which brings me to my last sanity saver....

Laugh...Just laugh!!  I mentioned on Monday that I laugh everyday.  It really does help!!  I don't let to much get to me!  And I feel like teaching these days is so stressful...with the common core, teacher evaluations, and the like, you have to have a sense of humor!


Can't wait to read about what keeps you sane during the work week!

Have a great day,
Katie

Monday, August 31, 2015

Back to School Week!

It's back to School Week for Me!  Part of me is thinking UGH....but another part of me is thinking YAY!, too!

I thought I'd hop on board with Blog Hoppin's Teacher Week this week.  I know this blog is not very "teachery" per say, but teaching consumes more than half my life and I enjoy sharing bits of my life inside and out of the classroom, so this will be fun!  With school starting I may not do a blog post everyday but I'll for sure post to instagram each day!  So follow me.... @missmitch2



Today's topic is:

{ONE}
I teach Library and Technology to all the students in my Pre-K through 8 grade Catholic School.  I am going into my 14th year of teaching!  Wow...it doesn't seem that long nor does it seem like I am old enough to be teaching that long.  (I will forever be 25 in my head!)  Over the years I have taught fourth grade, third grade, second grade, and now library-tech for the past 3 years...going on year four!
Library-Tech is great but I sometimes miss my own class and the sense of family!  I do enjoy being able to teach and get to know every single student though!


{TWO}
I live in the same town in which I work.  As a matter of fact, I can walk to work...in about five minutes!  I love this! Sometimes I see the kids around town.  It's so funny to see kids outside of the school setting and see their mouths drop open when they see you actually out in the real world!  It is not without it's challenges sometimes though either!!


{THREE}
Online shopping is my downfall!  I shop way too much!  This year I had a clothes shopping ban going....and I made it about three months!  Then I fell of that "ban" wagon hard!!  LOL  But I am always very smart about it.  I look for the great sales, buy on the cheap and always use ebates...the best thing EVER!!!


{FOUR}
Country music is my absolute favorite.  I like the stories in the songs and love that I can sing along to every word. I have been to so many country concerts.  Going to concerts is one of my top five things to do ever! I know today's country music is not like that of the past, but I enjoy it all.  Kenny Chesney is my favorite.  His was the concert of the summer!


{FIVE}
I laugh every single day!!  About everything and nothing at all!  Even if it's the worst day ever I try to find the joy and funny it it!!  I think you just have to...because what's the alternative??



Hope you enjoyed getting to know a little bit more about me and consider taking a peek over here to my little space in the blogosphere from time to time!!



Have a great day,
Katie

Saturday, August 29, 2015

Another year down!

Well today marks the second year in my home!  2 years ago today I closed and moved in here!  It was actually the very first day of school too, so needless to say, it was a busy day!  Last year on my first anniversary I shared this post!  The second year was less eventful I guess you could say, but there are still some things of note:

I've cooked a lot more this year!  Thanks to Hello Fresh!


I didn't have any long term house guests like I did the first year, but I did have some fun visitors!  Who I actually now have a bed for in the guest room!  They might still have to sleep among boxes and my Christmas tree but...


I feel like I entertained more this year!
A new Friendsgiving tradition was started... and will continue here!
And I once again hosted Christmas Eve dinner!
The bestie and I Celebrated New Year's Eve here.
One epic "girls only" slumber party was had for my birthday! (And one vera umbrella spent six weeks buried in the snow three houses down...).
And my my family came out for my town's St. Patrick's Day Parade and Celebration!

Lots of time was spent on my Postage Stamp Patio, in my new (to me) lounge chair!  So this summer I have a more even tan!  Woo Hoo!!

During this second year I spent a few weeks in THE BOOT, broke my toe and had laryngitis for a week.  So I spent a lot of time here!  HA!


I've accessorized the house more.  I've added a number of cork cages to the top of my kitchen cabinets!  Which is probably my favorite decorative feature in the house! And added more signs to the walls!  This is one of my faves!!  :)


I blogged about the house more this year.  Find those posts here & here!

I STILL didn't get a chandelier, much to my uncle's dismay!

I also contemplated getting a bigger kitchen table but that will have to wait....thank you Capital One! Cause damn, they are expensive!   Maybe before the next Friendsgiving!

I am pretty much settled into my home and my ways in this little house.  It's the perfect size for me!  I like having friends and family over but also enjoy the quiet nights spent here!


Ya know what, after all this, I think this second year WAS more eventful!
I look forward to what's to come in my next year (or 38)!

Have a great weekend all!